Tuesday, June 30, 2020

JUNE GOALS :: WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED


+ Refinish bookshelf.  Check!  And Jordyn got to help paint it which made her dreams come true. :)
+ Workout 3 days a week.  Check -- 2-3 days a week, but I actually enjoyed the workout I did, so I'm calling it a win.  A friend is leading an outdoor fitness class at the lake Monday, Wednesday, & Friday and I'm loving it!

+ Hair cut/color.  Check!  Plus I got another mani.  Date nights with Adam will almost all at home, but better than nothing!
+ Boat with friends.  Check! 
+ Family photos.  Check! And dare I say it was pleasant?!  


+ Mail money to a friend in need. Well this is what happens when you don't check in on your goals until the month is over.  What a shame, because it's the easiest thing on the list to accomplish! :(
+2013 Photobook.  Ugh!  I have no excuse for this!  Except pure burnout.  But I WILL finish this.

5/7 -- considering how fast this month flew by, it's better than I was expecting!

Sunday, May 31, 2020

MAY GOALS :: WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED




+ Painted Counters.  Check
+ Take 3 walks a week.  Check -- bonus that I finally found a leash that works to take Lola with me!
+ Pay off the Car. Check!  Bonus that we were able to pay off a personal loan to Adam's parents from before I even met Adam {over 10 years ago!}
+ Take a bath weekly.  Technically I only took two baths, but I also got a madi/pedi so I'll count it as a win!
+ Take a walk with friends.  Check! 
+ Host Mother's Day.  Check! Another year we got to host both of our moms.  I always feel so grateful since I know many kids who are no longer able to do this.  


+2013 Photobook.  Ugh!  I have no excuse for this!  Except maybe burnout.  But I WILL finish this.

6/7 -- pretty good.  Although it would have felt so good if I could have checked all 7 off!

Thursday, April 30, 2020

APRIL GOALS :: WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED


ACCOMPLISHED
+ Painted/wallpapered the elevator.  Still need to reattach the trim
+ Exercise three days each work.  I actually did this, but I haven't worked out at all this week, so....
+ Cancelled XM & cable. Check! & it feels great.  
+ Jordyn & I have been doing our nails weekly.  I've also been better about self-tanner and using Sundays to relax more, so win!
+ I finished the 2015, 2016, & started the 2020 family photobooks -- now I just need to finish the 2013 one and I'll be ALL CAUGHT UP!!

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+Group Zoom w/ friends I'm so sad this didn't happen!  Mainly because it sounds super fun and so easy to throw together.  That being said, I'm walking with 9 friends on Saturday morning and I'm so excited!
+Weekly Game Night didn't happen.  However, we did play several games and taught Jordyn how to play cribbage, so I'm excited about that. 

5.5/7 -- not terrible.  Plus it's April and I'm still doing these, which is better than most years, so I'll take it! :)

Saturday, February 29, 2020

FEBRUARY GOALS -- WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED


ACCOMPLISHED
+ I went to the dermatologist {first time ever -- not sure why I waiting so long!}
+ I did really, really good not making online purchases this month.  Not perfect, but the few times I cheated were on true necessities, not wants.
+ I didn't get my nails done at the salon, but I did put these press-ons on -- $5!!
+ We spent a night with our friends, the Joynts.  It was super fun to kick their butts in Monopoly catch up!  We also had dinner with the Sieferts and spent an afternoon on a party bus with lake friends.  Plus burger nights.
+ We took the kids skiing & we're headed back to the slopes today!

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+ Painting of the kitchen cabinets -- again, sigh.  We did add a shelf in the kitchen, paint the AV room, & order wall paper for the elevator.  I'm hopeful that tomorrow we will get the new shelving installed in the AV closet and hang a bunch of stuff in the garage.  ::fingers crossed::
+ The dang photo books!  BUT -- I did start one out 2019 book, so it's progress I guess.  Maybe by 2021 I can be caught up! ;)

Friday, January 31, 2020

JANUARY GOALS -- WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED



ACCOMPLISHED
+ Photobooks of Oklahoma, South Carolina, & Jamaica!
+ Set 2020 appointments for the family
+ Paid off Christmas
+ Planned 2020 travel & booked the RV
+ Had so much fun with Adam in Las Vegas
+ Created a birthday & address system

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+ Ice skating with the kids -- crossing our fingers it will happen tonight! So technically we will do it in January! :)
+ Dinner with friends in DSM -- we got a snow/ice storm and had to cancel :( We did however have an impromptu afternoon at the marina with the lake friends and we're hanging with friends again this weekend!
+ Painting of the kitchen cabinets -- BUT we did add wallpaper & update the upstairs bathroom, replace the drains in the kitchen sink, add electricity and mount a TV in the workout room, & get the garage door fixed.  Progress.

Thursday, January 2, 2020

20 for 2020

                                                                                                    
Add wallpaper to the upstairs bathroom
Block Sundays for family
Buy a hot tub
Celebrate Adam's 40th Birthday
Clean my car monthly
Complete Jordyn & Cullyn's baby books {18mo-6/7yrs}
Do some sort of self-care daily
Finish reading the bible to the kids
Monthly dates with Adam
Order a new refrigerator
Paint kitchen cabinets
Paint the elevator
Pay off all debt besides the house
Read the New Testament
Send paper mail to someone each month
Set an attainable morning routine
Spend more time on the water than last year
Start an exercise streak
Take a big trip with the kids
                         Watch the Cubbies with the kids                         

Lets see if I can do better then 58% this year! ;)

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

2019 Recap -- no wonder I'm always tired! ;)

Since I was terrible at making time to blog in 2019, it's probably more important than ever for me to do a little recap of 2019 if I want to stand a chance at remembering what went down.  Here a few highlights from our past year.


+ Adam started a new job in January & traveled to KC for an entire month.
+ Adam and I went to the BVI's for a week
+ I started a new job and no longer commute to DSM
+ Cullyn turned 6 and Jordyn 8
+ We sat curtside watching the Harlem Globetrotters
+ A niece graduated college and a niece and nephew graduated from high school
+ We went to STL with my family
+ I took Jordy to her first concert {JoJo Siwa}
+ Lola turned 2
+ Adam and I took the kids to Oklahoma
+ We flew to Colorado for a wedding/vacation
+ We road tripped to KC for the weekend
+ Listened to JJ Grey & Mofro in concert
+ The kids and I flew to SC with my family to see my Sister & BIL
+ Watched our niece got married
+ Jordyn started 2nd grade and Cullyn 1st
+ I ran a marathon
+ Adam and I celebrated 10 years by renewing our vows in Jamaica
+ We spent the weekend at FunCity with Adam's family
+ Adam and I took the kids to their first NFL game & spent the weekend in MN
+ I read over 50 books
+ Jordyn started {& stopped} gymnastics Cullyn started {& loves} taekwondo.  Both kids started piano.


Looking back, we spent a fair amount of time traveling {my very favorite thing!} and doing new things {flew in a helicopter, visited Colorado, ran a marathon} -- in between all of that were a million little things {sports games, runs, nightly rituals, meetings, homework, books read, practices, and everything else} -- We prioritized God, family time, and paying off debt and worried less about the state of my house and doing things out of obligation.

I'm super excited to see what 2020 has in store for us!  Adam turns 40 and we have some fun travel on the horizon!  I'm hoping to bring back the weekly date nights now that we've found our new groove.  I'm also going to start exercising in 2020 -- I know, me and 234083290846 people! ;)
Cheers to new beginnings!

Monday, December 30, 2019

19 for 2019 Checklist


Celebrate 10 years of marriage - In Jamaica!
Complete a daily devotional - Check!
Cook more dinners & meal plan weekly - Still not a ton, but definitely more!
Finish Jordyn & Cullyn's baby books {18mo-6/7yrs} -- Didn't even start!  UGH!! Definitely making this a priority in 2020!
Make a life journal - Check!
Monthly dates with Adam - Terrible!  We didn't have any sitters and Adam was working crazy hours.  I think we've got a plan for 2020! :)
Paint kitchen cabinets - Didn't start this either.  BUT, I do still want to do it, so I'm keeping it on the 2020 list!
Paint upstairs doors white - This was a bigger project than I thought, but it's DONE!
Read 50 books - Check!
Read the bible to the kids - We didn't finish the entire bible, but we made progress.
{Re}learn the Books of the Bible song - Fail! I just can't remember the song {from childhood} and can't find it anywhere online to even start memorizing it. :(
Replace bathroom doors w/ barn doors - Check!  & I LOVE them!!!
Run a marathon - Check!  By far the goal I'm most proud of!
SAVE & pay off car - We paid one car off and the other will be paid off before summer {whoop whoop!} We have also doubled our investments this year, so I feel good about our financial state.
Send more paper mail - This is the one I'm most disappointed about.  I did send more than I have previously, but I'm keeping this on the list for next year.  I hope to send something via snail mail every week in 2020.
Start 'Self-care Sundays' - I started off good and lost steam part way through the year.  That being said, I do think I've incorporated more self-care into my daily habits, so I think I'm doing okay.
Take cabinetry to garage - Check!  
Take Lola on more walks - No, and I just have to come to grips with the fact that she does not walk well on a leash.  I took her on a few walks and she nearly pulled my shoulder out of the socket once and pulled me to a belly flop another time, so I don't plan on keeping this on the list for next year. 
Travel to a new state - We visited Colorado for the first time -- & loved it.

11/19 - 58%
With both of us starting new jobs and all of transitioning to Adam's new work schedule, I'll take it.  

Now...to goal set for 2020! 

Friday, February 1, 2019

GOALS | February 2019

February is a short month, but an exciting one for us this year!  Almost half of these are vacation related.


What are your goals for February?

Thursday, January 31, 2019

GOALS Check Up | January

Here are my January goals...

HOME | Paint Upstairs Doors White
Progress.  2 of the 6 doors are complete.  In my defense, Adam was gone and I can't lift the doors so I was constantly at the mercy of friends coming over to flip them for me.  A huge pain, but I'm determined to get them done in February.  On the plus side, even with just 2 done, it's looking so much better!

HEALTH | Schedule Annual Appointments
This was a win.  I scheduled dental and eye appointments for the kids and I.  The ENT, pediatrician, and gynecologist aren't booking out that far yet. I will add this to my schedule in 3 months to see if anything else needs booked.

FINANCIAL | Discuss all Amazon Purchases with Adam
Success!  Not only did I consult with Adam before every purchase, I feel like I cut back on spending overall this month.  I'm trying hard to make sure it's a need instead of just a want.

ME TIME | Go to the Rachel Hollis Movie
Check!  I saw Made for More back in August when it first came out, but I couldn't pass up the opportunity to see it with friends when asked.  What better way to start the new year! :)  Bonus that we got dinner at Flavory Bistro before.

SOCIAL | Dinner w/ Friends
I had the most delicious dinner at RoCA to celebrate Alicia's Birthday!  Sadly, Adam was traveling for work, so I had to go solo, but it was worth it.  Such a fun night, even if I didn't get to bed until 1a!

FAMILY | Minneapolis weekend
I am SO incredibly sad this didn't happen.  I was looking forward to taking the kids back to the ice castles in Minnesota since we went 2 years ago!  Sadly we got a huge snowstorm {over 2 feet of snow!} on the weekend we had tickets.  I'm still hopefully will will get back, but I'm not sure when that will be.  On a positive note, we did go to A Dogs Way Home, spends lots of time outside in the snow, and had an epic Nerf gun fight.

DREAM BIG | Create a Will
Hands down the biggest win of the month!  After 8 years of transferring this from to do list to to do list, we finally completed our will!  It was a 15 minute phone call with the lawyer and a 15 minute meeting.  SO painless and it feels amazing to finally have it done!

I feel like I killed my January goals!  Hopefully February will go just as well! :)

Monday, September 10, 2018

Fall Bucket List 2018

Admittedly, summer was a little 'ehh' for us.  Nothing bad, I just wasn't very intentional about my time.  We did numerous fun things, but we were very focused on getting settled in the house.  Now that we're settled, I'm ready to make this house feel like a home.  One of the things we fell in love with most about this house was it's open space.  Not just a pretty area to decorate, but lots of spaces to fill out home with loved ones. I'm dreaming of crisp weekend mornings spent on the patio or the three seasons porch with the kids, pumpkin carving parties in the garage, and soup Sundays with football on the big screen.


What's on your fall bucket list?  If you made one, be sure to link it below!

Sunday, September 9, 2018

Cinema Sundays + Favorite Summer Movies


Our new house has a theater room in it.  While I know these are semi-popular and many people would have been excited to see one while house hunting, I was actually annoyed by it.  I have a husband and son that would watch TV all day if it were an option and I just didn't want to deal with it.  I'm almost a TV free person {I was after college until I moved in with Adam}.  So, since it's here, I've decided to make the best of it and we started Cinema Sundays at the house.  Sometime Sunday afternoon we watch a kid friendly movie and anyone who is around can come watch it.  My mother in law gave us a popcorn machine and I bought a ton of boxes of movie theater candy to snack on.  I must say, this 'team no TV' mama couldn't love this little tradition more!   It's such a fun way to sit down and connect with my little family to regroup before the next week.  Here are a few of our favorites from this summer...



Monday, January 1, 2018

GOALS | January 2018


Overall I would like more family dinners, less eating out, more working out, less money spent, more water drank, less time spent worrying, more time praying and reading, less negotiating with my kids, more dreaming with my husband, less time spent scrolling through social media, more laughing and playing with my family, etc.



That's what I wrote last year, and while I think I did better in almost all of these areas {dates with Adam for sure, more time in church, less scrolling on social media} but definately not saving money - boo! I'm still striving to be better in each of these areas, so I thought so it was appropriate to keep. Last year I fizzled out with monthly goals in April, so here's to making it further than that in 2018! ;)



January's list to push me in the right direction...

Floss daily
Celebrate 2018!
Go on a date with Adam
Blog at least 1x per week
Meal plan :: at least Mon - Thurs
Stay out of Target the entire month!
Take the kids on individual dates again!
Organize the closets :: Pull all of Cullyn's 2t clothes
Make a photo book :: I have like 100 to do this year!!!
Update the kids' travel journals :: MO, TN, NC & SC
Go on a family date :: Skiing? Ice Skating? Movie? Bowling?

What are your goals?  I love new suggestions!

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

2016 Highlights

Like everyone else, I love taking the time to make a 2016 highlights post.  For myself, if no one else.


2016, wasn't the easiest year, but it was a good year.  We're all healthy {praise be to God!}  Most of all, this year taught me to reprioritize my family.  When work gets demanding, it's easy for me to let it slowly overtake my life.  I've been blessed enough to have a hobby that's turned into a business -- a booming one at that -- but along with that, it's taken more and more time away from my family each year since I've started it.  This year, I finally pulled back from photography business to make my time for my husband and children again.  It's hard to say goodbye to the extra income, but in the end, I know I'll never regret spending the extra time wth my family.  2016 was the year I really started to feel a connection with God, too.  I started going to church because I want to, rather than feeling like I needed to.  I'm praying more and gravitating to those that have a good relationship with God.  I feel more 'centered' than ever.


If I had one goal for 2017 {though I have many} it would be to make more time for my husband.  I've been telling people for years now {honestly since we've had children -- not that I'm blaming this on them} that my poor husband gets the very worst of me.  He get's what's left after the kids, work, photography, the house and everything else.  It's sad, but unfortunately true.  We've been better about sneaking in dates here in there this year, but I want to make it more quality time.  More deep conversations.  More late night chats.  More dreaming big.  More love and less sharing of his {our} less than best side to others.

That got much deeper than I intended, so let's lighten this up a bit...

FAVORITES of 2016...
Movie | The only ones I saw were Sully, Finding Dory, Pete's Dragon, Storks, Zootopia & Bad Moms
Television | This is Us & the Chicago series {PD, Fire, Med}
Music | Chris Stapleton, Brett Eldridge, HOLY, Middle of a Memory, Record Year, House Party
Books | Bread & Wine & The Woman in Cabin 10
Podcasts | The Happy Hour w/ Jamie Ivey & Young House Living Has A Podcast

Okay, the real post...


January
We moved into our new house and took the kids to play at the Science Center, ice skate at Brenton Skating Plaza, skiing at Seven Oaks, and rock climbing at Climb Iowa.  Adam and I went to our first Drake basketball game.  I also shot stills for a video company--being on set was a first for me!


February
We celebrated watched the Super Bowl with friends, Valentine's Day, settled into our house, took the kids to the Iowa City Children's Museum with friends, and went bowling as a family.  I went to the Realish Housewives of Waukee and Jordyn took at Art Class at the Des Moines Art Center.  We also traded in our minivan for a Jeep.


March
Cullyn's room was completed, we went to SkyZone, Cullyn started Tumbling at Triad, and had built-ins installed in our living room.  Adam and I went and saw our favorite Jazz artist, Hamilton Loomis.


April
We celebrated St. Patrick's Day and Easter, had a picnic in the park, took the kids glow golfing, finished Jordyn's bedroom, went bowling for a birthday party, played with piglets at a farm, celebrated Cullyn's Birthday, went to Turks & Caicos, and cheered for Auntie Ashley as she quit her corporate job and turned her hobby into a full time business.  Jordyn had her 3rd surgery {1st Tympanoplasty}.


May
We delivered May Day goodies, celebrated Mother's Day with my mom & mother in law and Memorial Day weekend at the lake, spent an evening at Jester Park, and went fishing at the lake.  Adam and I went to a Garth Brooks concert, celebrated Cinco de Mayo, and went to a Kentucky Derby with friends. We also watched our 2nd oldest niece graduated from high school.


June
We celebrated Uncle Brad's graduation from Dental School, watched Jordyn's first dance recital at Stephen's Auditorium in Ames, took family photos in Iowa City with my family, spent a Friday morning picking strawberries and a Saturday at the Farmer's Market downtown, and Father's Day weekend at the lake.



July
Was tough, as we said goodbye to Alicia and Brad so they could start their new life in South Carolina.  We spent a quiet, rainy 4th of July at the lake with friends followed another super fun weekend at the lake the following weekend.  We had lots of picnics and a trip to visit my Grandparents and Great Aunt, Uncle, and Cousin.  I took the kids to see Finding Dory at the drive in and Summerfest.  We all danced to Adam's band at the farm. We also hit several Splash Pads and Adam and I went to Guthrie River Ruckus with friends.


August
We watched the iCubs with friends, had lazy family days painting rocks, making snacks & watching movies, and eating donuts in the park in preparation for school starting.  We went to the Iowa State Fair, the Farmer's Market downtown, and Wilson's Apple Orchard in Iowa City.  I celebrated my 30th Birthday in New York City with my mom and sisters. {I need to blog about this!}  I photographed my final wedding for the year and met my first blog friend.



September
School started back for both kids, Dance resumed for Jordyn, and we took the kids to Adventureland for their first time.  We ate at the food trucks, took final bike rides for the year, and spent an evening at the Apple Orchard.  We even stopped to splash in the puddles one afternoon and went to the Lake of the Ozarks for the weekend with friends.



October
The kids tried soccer for the first time, I planned Jordyn's fall party at school, I took the kids to the Luminarium exhibit downtown, Aliya and I took the kids to the Pumpkin Patch, we had a girls' spa night while the guys has a superhero night, Adam and I celebrated 7 years of marriage, and Jordyn turned 5!  We cheered on the Cubs all month long -- until they won the World Series and Adam and I went to an Iowa Football game with friends.  We took a family trip the TN, NC, & SC.  We had our family photos taken at the lake, took the kids trick or treating and trunk or treating for Halloween, bought the kids a trampoline for the backyard, and took at nature walk at Saylorville Lake.



November
November was supposed to be a quiet month for us, but ended up being a brutally exhausting one because Jordyn got head lice that ended up taking so much time & energy.  Work was also extremely demanding for Adam during this time.  We did celebrate a nice Thanksgiving with Adam's family.



December
All of us ended up getting the stomach flu in December, which really limited our Christmas activities, but we still managed to do 12 dates of Christmas -- Christmas tree shopping, the Snowflake Express, Breakfast with Santa, Jolly Holiday Lights, Jordyn's Dance Recital, several Christmas Parties {Adam earned another trip}, amazing Christmas' with family, and a New Year's Eve with friends.  Jordyn also had her 4th surgery {3rd set of tubes, tonsils, & adenoids} and is recovering well.

2014 recap

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Summer 2016 | Bucket List


One of the things that made me fall in love with Adam was his ability to make every day fun!  I often say things like 'it's a school night' as an excuse not to be able to do something, but he never misses a chance to do fun things -- perhaps that's why we belong together.  Ying & Yang.  At any rate, the older I get, the faster time seems to fly by.  So I'm planning to make the most of this summer.  Here is our list of Top 50 Summer Dreams...

1.  Pitch a tent in the backyard (or go on a real camping trip)

2.  Go fishing (pack a picnic lunch)
3.  Enjoy a day on the boat
4.  Go for a family bike ride
5.  Host a seafood boil
6.  Feed the ducks
7.  Spend an afternoon at the Iowa State Fair
8.  Go to an evening baseball game
9.  Ride a ferris wheel at Summerfest
10. Play in the splash pads downtown
11. Host an outdoor movie
12. Make s'mores at the lake
13. Maid-Rites and chocolate shakes at the park
14. Go to the pool
15. Host a lemonade stand
16. Paint rocks
17. Make a Strawberry shortcake
18. Lay in the grass and watch the airplanes take off
19. Eat Orange Leaf
20. Sing to the guitar by a campfire
21. Make homemade Popsicles
22. Go to a drive in
23. Take the kids strawberry picking
24. Go for a walk in our pajamas - explore outside with flashlights
25. Go see Finding Dory
26. Spend a day at the zoo
27. Donuts and a morning at the park
28. Grab lunch at the Food Trucks downtown
29. Catch lightening bugs
30. Moscow Mules and a fire on the patio
31. A nature scavenger hunt
32. Watch a sunset
33. Take a bike ride on the High Tressel Trail
34. A picnic, a park, and parchment paper wrapped sandwiches
35. Swimming lessons
36. Grab TropicalSno
37. Make homemade ice cream
38. Plant Ferns
39. Make a deck fort
40. Surprise Daddy with a picnic lunch
41. Fresh flowers for the house
42. Make dirt cups 
43. Take the kids school supply shopping
44. Try tennis
45. Splash in puddles in our rain boots
46. Farmer's Market on a Saturday morning
47. Grill pizza with friends
48. Take the kids to a waterpark
49. Share a bottle of wine on the patio while playing cribbage
50. Run through the sprinklers in the yard

Thursday, January 14, 2016

New Year | 2016 Goals

Last year I had a pretty structured set of goals and I'm happy to report that with the exception not hitting not making my health goals, and not has much travel as I would have preferred, I did everything on that list!  We stayed in more, spent more time with family, I cooked more in 2015 than I did in all 29 years combined before that.

The awesome part is that most of those goals were less of the 'checking off' nature, and more in the realm of making 'better life choices'  Things I hope to continue doing despite the flip in the calendar. 

So after a great 2015, I don't have a ton of things I want to change, but rather a few big ones...

I want to become more healthy in 2016.  Now that we're settled in our house, I'm anxious for Spring so we can be outside more as a family.  Softball in the back yard, family bike rides, more swimming, etc.  Adam and I reactivated out gym membership now that we're in town again, and it's crazy how much it felt like coming back home. We all picked off just were we left off and it's feeling great!  A huge goal of mine would be to run a full marathon this year.


I want to play with my kids more in 2016.  I'll admit, working 4 10 hour days at the hospital, plus running a photography business, plus being a wife, and working out, and be a friend/sister/daughter/etc. leaves me tired and short on time more than I would like to admit.  It seems like no matter how much pre-planning as organizing I do, Monday through Thursday are tough.  After work, picking the kids up from daycare, going to the gym or taking a kid to an activity, dinner, & baths, there isn't a ton of time for playing.  So I'm going to be extra intentional with my time and leave 30 minutes before bedtime each night to actually play or talk with my kids.


I want to travel more in 2016.  We worked hard to save money to pay off Adam's car and be able to get out of our condo last year, so traveling got pushed to the back burner more than I would have preferred. We did get to Kansas City for a long weekend, and I went to Texas with my mom, but other than that, we didn't leave Iowa at all which is a total shame when I think of all the places I want to see.  With the new house, I may be dreaming, but I would love to take a long weekend and go Skiing somewhere in February.  Adam and I will be going to the Turks and Caicos in April and I'm planning to take a girls' trip to New York this August for my 30th birthday.  I'm photographing a wedding in South Carolina in October, so I'm really hoping to take Adam and the kids and make a little vacation out of it.

Other than that, I want to stick with blogging to document our life {it's so awesome to have this to look back on}, and monthly dates with each of the kids' and Adam {I found these to be so valuable, no matter how small the 'date' was}, and giving back to the community in some way each month {I did these with the intent of teaching the kids to give back, but I think it's had as much, if not more, of an impact on me.  It's incredible the feeling you get when you're able to help someone else out.  I also found I valued my life and the people/things/experiences I have it in even more after these events. It's a good reminder of perspective}.  Once we finish decorating the house, I really want to work on saving as much as possible, so that will be a big focus for us in 2016.  This will help us make the upgrades we want.  The only other 'goal' I have is to catch up on the kids' photo albums.  I obviously have plenty of photos, but I need to go through them and choose my favorites, and get them into a Shutterfly book.  I only made it to 18 months with each of them!  So my goal is set aside some time to get them completed.  It's a task I dread so much, until it's over, and then it's the biggest sigh of relief!  Totally worth it!

Oh, and one more thing.  It's not really a goal, but rather a reminder to keep working on myself.  I want to slow down and really soak up life's moments.  I want to treasure every Friday, Saturday, Sunday with my family.  More picnics, Jeep rides around the lake, catching fireflies, camping in the backyard and pushes at the park.  I'll have all kinds of time to sit and read my book when I'm 50 and missing having my kids at home.

2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014 and 2015 resolutions and Bucket List

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Summer Bucket List Recap

I thought it would be fun to check in and see how we did on our summer bucket list.
--------------------------------------------
PROGRESS::
Go camping - didn't happen.  I'm really hoping to do this next summer, if not before.  Adam just can't be convinced to tent camp when we own a lake house. :)
Go to the farmer's market - We did!  I just haven't blogged about it yet.  I'm still hoping to make one more this year, too. :)
Listen to live music outside - plus several other events, like Adam's band at the Balloon Festival & LaborDaze
Have a picnic with the kids at the Better Homes & Garden test garden - check!
Have lunch downtown at the food trucks
Happy Hour with my hubby - It only happened once, so I'm hoping to do it again this fall. :)
Go to the pool - we practically lived there!  
Spend a long weekend at the lake - we did!  Over the 4th & Labor Day plus a random long weekend just for fun
Paddleboard/Canoe - We did!  We paddle board & pedal boated with my family one weekend, I kayaked with my mom and sister one morning, and Jordyn & I paddle boarded with Adam's family the day after my birthday.  I still want to take the canoe out for a morning on the water this fall. 
Go to the Iowa State Fair - barely, but we made it! 
Watch the planes fly in - I took Cullyn one day, but I would still like to take both kids to do it.  Perhaps a Friday morning this Fall.
Go to the drive in - FAIL!  In my defense, we tried.  They weren't playing kid appropriate movies and of the weekends we were free. :(
Do a lemonade stand - Check. In the 11th hour. :)
Fly a kite - Check.  We did this over our long weekend at the lake. 
Go to a baseball game
Take the kids fishing - Check.  Early this summer, Adam & his dad took the kids out fishing one morning and we also took them out over out long weekend at the lake. 
Spent a day on a boat - Check.  We ended up getting out on the water several days this summer.  I still want to take Jordyn tubing since she's asked so many times, but it will have to wait until next summer now. 
Plant flowers - Check.  We planted a Hibiscus at the condo and a few Lilliums at the lake.  Although I'm still hoping to plant some Hastas around the lake at some point. 
Explore the zoo - FAIL!  I'm so sad this didn't happen.  I'm really hoping to get there before it closes for the season. 
Make an outdoor movie - check.  It wasn't as pretty as last year's, but we did make one.  We also went to one in Ankeny, too. 
Catch fireflies - FAIL! I'm so sad this didn't happen.  It wasn't for a lack of effort!  Apparently we don't have fireflies at the lake house. :(
Pick strawberries
Feed the ducks - Check!  We did this several times this summer.  It came at the expense of a cracked phone, but it was worth it. :)

Overall not terrible, although I was really hoping we would get to all of these.  I'm happy with the memories we were able to create, so I'm not going to dwell on the few things that didn't/weren't able to happen this summer.  I'm excited to see what Fall brings!! :)
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2014 Summer Bucket List
2013 Summer Bucket List

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

2015 | Dreams


2014 was awesome, but I want 2015 to be even better.  I want to give my husband and kids more of my time.  Take less time on the things/relationships that don't really matter.  Call my grandparents more.  More time at home.  Less time running around.  Not to be confused with less time running, because I'm hoping to spend more time running in 2015 than ever before! :)  Less phone time.  More time learning to cook.  Less 'waste' {plastic bags, napkins, food, etc.}   The list goes on and on... 

{BLOG}
Goal::Post a recap & photo of my kids each week

{COMMUNITY}
Goal::Pay it forward once a month

{FINANCIAL}
Goal::Adam's car, & credit card debt
Monthly Goal:buy less 'stuff'

{HEALTH}
Goal::Run a marathon
Weekly Goal:Go to the gym 4-5 times 
Daily Goal:Track food & drink 100oz. of water
Summer Goal:Bike 100 miles {w/ the kids in the carrier}



{HOME} 
Condo::Repaint our bedroom & fix the curtains in the living room
Lakehouse::Install trim around the windows

{KIDS}
Goal::Take each kid on a {individual} date once a month
Weekly Goal this Summer:Explore every park in town

{MARRIAGE}
Goal::Have a date night at least once a month

{PHOTOGRAPHY}
Goal:: Finish my website!
Monthly Goals:Take a nature photo monthly to help develop my skills.
Personal Goal:Organize and upload photos of the kids each month.

{TRAVEL}
Goal::Take a family vacation {location TBD}
Planned Trips:Ski trip w/ Adam in February & lake trip w/ Adam in August

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