Tuesday, March 31, 2020

MARCH GOALS -- WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED


ACCOMPLISHED
+ Started {& finished!!} painting the kitchen cabinets!
+ Buy zero pieces of clothing.  I do have a long wishlist though...
+ I did my own shellac nails thanks to this kit.  My coworker just got this and I might have to get one for myself...
+ Take the kids bowling -- just before the world went on lock-down
+ I finished the 2017, 2018, & 2019 family photobooks -- the upside of COVID-19!

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+Exercise 30 minutes per day -- fail!  I exercised 3 times.  Which is 3 times more than January, & February, so I guess it's progress.  I have high hopes to start exercising at least 3 days a week now that I'm done with the blessed kitchen cabinet project!
+Fondue night also didn't happen.  We didn't host anything this month thanks to the Corona.

5/7 -- given the craziness of the month I'm happy with that.

Saturday, February 29, 2020

FEBRUARY GOALS -- WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED


ACCOMPLISHED
+ I went to the dermatologist {first time ever -- not sure why I waiting so long!}
+ I did really, really good not making online purchases this month.  Not perfect, but the few times I cheated were on true necessities, not wants.
+ I didn't get my nails done at the salon, but I did put these press-ons on -- $5!!
+ We spent a night with our friends, the Joynts.  It was super fun to kick their butts in Monopoly catch up!  We also had dinner with the Sieferts and spent an afternoon on a party bus with lake friends.  Plus burger nights.
+ We took the kids skiing & we're headed back to the slopes today!

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+ Painting of the kitchen cabinets -- again, sigh.  We did add a shelf in the kitchen, paint the AV room, & order wall paper for the elevator.  I'm hopeful that tomorrow we will get the new shelving installed in the AV closet and hang a bunch of stuff in the garage.  ::fingers crossed::
+ The dang photo books!  BUT -- I did start one out 2019 book, so it's progress I guess.  Maybe by 2021 I can be caught up! ;)

Friday, January 31, 2020

JANUARY GOALS -- WHAT I ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISHED



ACCOMPLISHED
+ Photobooks of Oklahoma, South Carolina, & Jamaica!
+ Set 2020 appointments for the family
+ Paid off Christmas
+ Planned 2020 travel & booked the RV
+ Had so much fun with Adam in Las Vegas
+ Created a birthday & address system

DIDN'T ACCOMPLISH
+ Ice skating with the kids -- crossing our fingers it will happen tonight! So technically we will do it in January! :)
+ Dinner with friends in DSM -- we got a snow/ice storm and had to cancel :( We did however have an impromptu afternoon at the marina with the lake friends and we're hanging with friends again this weekend!
+ Painting of the kitchen cabinets -- BUT we did add wallpaper & update the upstairs bathroom, replace the drains in the kitchen sink, add electricity and mount a TV in the workout room, & get the garage door fixed.  Progress.

Monday, April 9, 2018

GOALS | April 2018


I'm keeping this list simple since 
1. we're already a week in and I'm just getting to this 
2. and we're hoping to move this month which is consuming all of our energy at this time 

Get windshield replaced
Read a book | I'm thinking either 7 or Of Mess and Moxie
Individual dates with the kids
Go on a date with Adam
Go on a family date | Bowling?  Rock Climbing?
Finish the kids' travel journals :: MN & NC
Pack both houses!

Monday, March 5, 2018

GOALS | March 2018 {+ a Free Shutterfly Book Code}


March's list to keep making progress...

Meal plan
Make tax appointment & prep for them!
Get windshield replaced
Read a book | Any suggestions?
Make a photo book | Use code BOOK4SPRING for a free 8x8 photo book!
Buy Easter Basket goodies for the kids
Individual dates with the kids
Go on a date with Adam
Go on a family date | Bowling?  Rock Climbing?
Order maps for the kids' travel journals :: MO, TN, NC & SC 
I need TWO of each map, so I need to go back and order the rest of the maps - sigh!

Monday, February 5, 2018

GOALS | February 2018



February's list to keep me making progress...

Meal plan
Read a book
Make a photo book
Don't buy any clothes!
Wash my face every day
Individual dates with the kids
Purge all drawers/clutter areas
Celebrate Valentine's with Adam
Go on a family date :: Skiing? Movie? Bowling?
Update the kids' travel journals :: MO, TN, NC & SC


What are your goals?  I love new suggestions!

Monday, January 1, 2018

GOALS | January 2018


Overall I would like more family dinners, less eating out, more working out, less money spent, more water drank, less time spent worrying, more time praying and reading, less negotiating with my kids, more dreaming with my husband, less time spent scrolling through social media, more laughing and playing with my family, etc.



That's what I wrote last year, and while I think I did better in almost all of these areas {dates with Adam for sure, more time in church, less scrolling on social media} but definately not saving money - boo! I'm still striving to be better in each of these areas, so I thought so it was appropriate to keep. Last year I fizzled out with monthly goals in April, so here's to making it further than that in 2018! ;)



January's list to push me in the right direction...

Floss daily
Celebrate 2018!
Go on a date with Adam
Blog at least 1x per week
Meal plan :: at least Mon - Thurs
Stay out of Target the entire month!
Take the kids on individual dates again!
Organize the closets :: Pull all of Cullyn's 2t clothes
Make a photo book :: I have like 100 to do this year!!!
Update the kids' travel journals :: MO, TN, NC & SC
Go on a family date :: Skiing? Ice Skating? Movie? Bowling?

What are your goals?  I love new suggestions!

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

2016 Highlights

Like everyone else, I love taking the time to make a 2016 highlights post.  For myself, if no one else.


2016, wasn't the easiest year, but it was a good year.  We're all healthy {praise be to God!}  Most of all, this year taught me to reprioritize my family.  When work gets demanding, it's easy for me to let it slowly overtake my life.  I've been blessed enough to have a hobby that's turned into a business -- a booming one at that -- but along with that, it's taken more and more time away from my family each year since I've started it.  This year, I finally pulled back from photography business to make my time for my husband and children again.  It's hard to say goodbye to the extra income, but in the end, I know I'll never regret spending the extra time wth my family.  2016 was the year I really started to feel a connection with God, too.  I started going to church because I want to, rather than feeling like I needed to.  I'm praying more and gravitating to those that have a good relationship with God.  I feel more 'centered' than ever.


If I had one goal for 2017 {though I have many} it would be to make more time for my husband.  I've been telling people for years now {honestly since we've had children -- not that I'm blaming this on them} that my poor husband gets the very worst of me.  He get's what's left after the kids, work, photography, the house and everything else.  It's sad, but unfortunately true.  We've been better about sneaking in dates here in there this year, but I want to make it more quality time.  More deep conversations.  More late night chats.  More dreaming big.  More love and less sharing of his {our} less than best side to others.

That got much deeper than I intended, so let's lighten this up a bit...

FAVORITES of 2016...
Movie | The only ones I saw were Sully, Finding Dory, Pete's Dragon, Storks, Zootopia & Bad Moms
Television | This is Us & the Chicago series {PD, Fire, Med}
Music | Chris Stapleton, Brett Eldridge, HOLY, Middle of a Memory, Record Year, House Party
Books | Bread & Wine & The Woman in Cabin 10
Podcasts | The Happy Hour w/ Jamie Ivey & Young House Living Has A Podcast

Okay, the real post...


January
We moved into our new house and took the kids to play at the Science Center, ice skate at Brenton Skating Plaza, skiing at Seven Oaks, and rock climbing at Climb Iowa.  Adam and I went to our first Drake basketball game.  I also shot stills for a video company--being on set was a first for me!


February
We celebrated watched the Super Bowl with friends, Valentine's Day, settled into our house, took the kids to the Iowa City Children's Museum with friends, and went bowling as a family.  I went to the Realish Housewives of Waukee and Jordyn took at Art Class at the Des Moines Art Center.  We also traded in our minivan for a Jeep.


March
Cullyn's room was completed, we went to SkyZone, Cullyn started Tumbling at Triad, and had built-ins installed in our living room.  Adam and I went and saw our favorite Jazz artist, Hamilton Loomis.


April
We celebrated St. Patrick's Day and Easter, had a picnic in the park, took the kids glow golfing, finished Jordyn's bedroom, went bowling for a birthday party, played with piglets at a farm, celebrated Cullyn's Birthday, went to Turks & Caicos, and cheered for Auntie Ashley as she quit her corporate job and turned her hobby into a full time business.  Jordyn had her 3rd surgery {1st Tympanoplasty}.


May
We delivered May Day goodies, celebrated Mother's Day with my mom & mother in law and Memorial Day weekend at the lake, spent an evening at Jester Park, and went fishing at the lake.  Adam and I went to a Garth Brooks concert, celebrated Cinco de Mayo, and went to a Kentucky Derby with friends. We also watched our 2nd oldest niece graduated from high school.


June
We celebrated Uncle Brad's graduation from Dental School, watched Jordyn's first dance recital at Stephen's Auditorium in Ames, took family photos in Iowa City with my family, spent a Friday morning picking strawberries and a Saturday at the Farmer's Market downtown, and Father's Day weekend at the lake.



July
Was tough, as we said goodbye to Alicia and Brad so they could start their new life in South Carolina.  We spent a quiet, rainy 4th of July at the lake with friends followed another super fun weekend at the lake the following weekend.  We had lots of picnics and a trip to visit my Grandparents and Great Aunt, Uncle, and Cousin.  I took the kids to see Finding Dory at the drive in and Summerfest.  We all danced to Adam's band at the farm. We also hit several Splash Pads and Adam and I went to Guthrie River Ruckus with friends.


August
We watched the iCubs with friends, had lazy family days painting rocks, making snacks & watching movies, and eating donuts in the park in preparation for school starting.  We went to the Iowa State Fair, the Farmer's Market downtown, and Wilson's Apple Orchard in Iowa City.  I celebrated my 30th Birthday in New York City with my mom and sisters. {I need to blog about this!}  I photographed my final wedding for the year and met my first blog friend.



September
School started back for both kids, Dance resumed for Jordyn, and we took the kids to Adventureland for their first time.  We ate at the food trucks, took final bike rides for the year, and spent an evening at the Apple Orchard.  We even stopped to splash in the puddles one afternoon and went to the Lake of the Ozarks for the weekend with friends.



October
The kids tried soccer for the first time, I planned Jordyn's fall party at school, I took the kids to the Luminarium exhibit downtown, Aliya and I took the kids to the Pumpkin Patch, we had a girls' spa night while the guys has a superhero night, Adam and I celebrated 7 years of marriage, and Jordyn turned 5!  We cheered on the Cubs all month long -- until they won the World Series and Adam and I went to an Iowa Football game with friends.  We took a family trip the TN, NC, & SC.  We had our family photos taken at the lake, took the kids trick or treating and trunk or treating for Halloween, bought the kids a trampoline for the backyard, and took at nature walk at Saylorville Lake.



November
November was supposed to be a quiet month for us, but ended up being a brutally exhausting one because Jordyn got head lice that ended up taking so much time & energy.  Work was also extremely demanding for Adam during this time.  We did celebrate a nice Thanksgiving with Adam's family.



December
All of us ended up getting the stomach flu in December, which really limited our Christmas activities, but we still managed to do 12 dates of Christmas -- Christmas tree shopping, the Snowflake Express, Breakfast with Santa, Jolly Holiday Lights, Jordyn's Dance Recital, several Christmas Parties {Adam earned another trip}, amazing Christmas' with family, and a New Year's Eve with friends.  Jordyn also had her 4th surgery {3rd set of tubes, tonsils, & adenoids} and is recovering well.

2014 recap

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

I've been keeping something from you guys...

I can't believe I'm about to put this in writing, but if all goes as planned, I'll be running a marathon this summer!  I haven't officially signed up yet, but you may have noticed I've bumped up my running schedule and started my training again.  


Sports Bra c/o Onzie :: Leggings c/o Onzie
Sorry for the terrible lighting.  I resorted to iPhone timer photos. :(
As for the terrible hair/face--these were 3 minutes post 8 mile run.
For timing reasons, I've decided the Grandma's Marathon in Duluth, MN would be the best fit for me right now.  I would love {love, love!} to run the Chicago Marathon this fall, but as most of you know Fall is busy season for photographers, and I just don't think I would have the time dedicated to running.  

So stay tuned, because I'm sure you guys will be hearing lots more about this! :)



Huge thanks to Onzie for sending me these new leggings that are so incredibly comfortable and sports bra.  I must admit, the sports bra is a bit thin, but it held my barely there/non existent girls just fine! #MomProblems  I can't wait to add to my workout collection with some of their adorably patterned pieces! :) 

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Pay It Forward | April

In April we did a couple of smaller RAoK.  And bonus, they weren't even done the last week of the month! :)  While at the gas station, I purchased a car wash for the next person and put a little note explaining it was a Random Act of Kindness and to use the code on my receipt to get a free carwash.  The next week, we bought a some coloring sup pies {Jordyn's favorite activity} and sent them to both of the gym daycares with the kids.  I must admit, it's so fun to watch Jordyn get excited giving gifts to people.  I know we're only 4 months in, but I'm so happy we decided to do this this year!



Related Posts :: Paying it Forward in 2014 | January PIF | February PIF | March PIF

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Paying it Forward in 2014

One of my 2014 resolutions is to pay if forward each month.  So I made a plan of some simple {budget-friendly} things we plan to do each month this year.  


In addition to the list, I hope to do other Random Act of Kindness throughout the year.  Like last week when I took Jordyn to the pediatrician for an impromptu appointment first thing in the morning, and we took donuts with us for the staff.  

Other RAoK or PIF ideas...

{free}
Donate books to the library 
Donate children's DVD's to the Children's hospital/clinic or dentist office
Donate games to an after school program 
Donate old sheets, towels and newspaper to the animal shelter 
Leave love notes for your husband or children
Let someone go in front of you in line
Volunteer with a new charity 

{friends/family}
Bake cookies  to take to work, daycare, etc.
Bring coffee to a friend who had a long night {break up, loss in the family, new baby}
Bring treats to work for coworkers 
Leave potted flowers on your neighbor or friends doorstep 
Lighten a friend's load {help get ready for a garage sale, take photos for her, watch her kids}
Offer to babysit for friends so they can have a free night out 
Prepare a meal for a new mom or for a friend in need 
Send a box of sunshine to a friend having a rough time 
Send a care package to a new mom 
Send a friend flowers for no reason 
Send a thinking of your card to a friend
Support a small business a friend is building 
Write a thank you note to your child's teacher 

{strangers}
Bring coffee to your tax office during tax season 
Bring cookies to nurses at the hospital 
Donate to a special cause {giveforward.com is a great site}
Donate school supplies to a local school, library, or church
Give a grocery store gift card to the person behind me
Give a stranger a lottery ticket 
Make & deliver treats for firefighters
Leave a gift card in a book a the library with a note 
Leave an extra tip for a server at a restaurant 
Leave a treat and thank you note for the mail carrier 
Pay for the person in line behind you
Put money in a vending machine without buying anything
Return a cart for someone at the grocery store {as a mom, this is a HUGE help!}
Send a care package to a soldier 
Sponsor a child/family for the holidays 
Take flowers to the hospital, ask a nurse to give them to someone who could use them
Tape quarters to a candy machine 

January 2014 | February 2014 | March 2014 | April 2014 | May 2014 | June 2014 | July 2014 | August 2014 | September 2014 | October 2014 | November 2014 | December 2014

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